'You're (digitally) grounded!' Print E-mail
Written by Anne Collier   
September 08, 2010

Instead of grounding their kids for bad grades or behavior, more and more parents are taking away the cellphone, laptop, or Xbox, the Washington Post reports. " In a report earlier this year that captured part of the trend, 62% of parents said they had taken away a cellphone as punishment," it adds, citing data from the Pew Internet & American Life Project. The article tells of how Ian, then a high school sophomore, lost his cellphone and Facebook privileges after getting a report card that "contained letters of the alphabet that were not A, B or C." He was digitally grounded even over the winter holiday break (which led to a lot more emailing and voice calls from the home phone). His next report card showed a 3.25 grade average, according to the Post, which relates a lot more family stories. None of this will surprise, I'm sure, but it's kind of nice confirmation, other families' experiences are always fun to read about, and I like that the article shows how individual all this is. We need to work from the kid-out, not from the news headlines-in where family tech policy is concerned! [See also "One family's tech policy," Don't just take away the Xbox: Psychiatrist's view," and why soft-power parenting works better where technology's concerned.]